Whats a fear that you have conquering a new relationship, or even reviving an old one?
Many people struggle walking into a new relationship, because you have lived the same circumstantial day to day atmosphere in the old one.
Something I truly feared in pursuing a new relationship was betrayal. Now I’m a confident person but I have not and will not compete, when it comes to your attention beside other aspects of your life. I expect priorities to be priorities and fun to be fun. Priorities is something you set for yourself. It will tell me what kind of Man/Women you are. It defines your mentality.
When I pray for my soulmate, Ive always prayed for a challenged past. I like a challenge. Not comically but literally. With that request, I prayed for a man with a challenging past, I prayed for that truthfully, because i want to climb those walls. I’ve always understood the staircase to earning a mans respect and trust. Ive always taken that pain upon myself to help carry his Demons. I do it out of pure soul fired intentions. I want to understand his past and his heart because I am pursuing to be his future. Everything that has made him who he is, will show, a defined importance to the many reasons I’ll love him. His anger, stubborn, and irritation can all be tamed. A man will never intimidate me. However I fear that, those acts of purity will be manipulated, take advantage of and betrayed.
i know many men that build walls, in the unsteady mindset of being judge by showing weakness. I ask for No Man that can not hold his own, but I do ask for a humble vulnerability in the important things such as; his faith, honesty, and loyalty.
In those times of lonely hours all men have, when waiting for the partner they can be vulnerable with. it is important for him to understand the situation he puts himself in years from now by pushing people away now. It is important that he holds himself accountable to the actions he makes in a time of despair.
A stressed boy will always be easily irritated, he will always evaluate a situation in immature measurements, and take actions on what tickles his skin.
A stressed man should and will evaluate a outcome before making a choice. He will measure his situation on behalf of maturity and knowledge. He will take action on what defiles his morals.
I fear that our society lacks men.
When women have to step out; go the distance, chase the man, or uphold the rituals and morals of a relationship or household.
Men are tucked in a bed of comfort, feeling less need to do doing their part, or upholding their place as a boyfriend, husband or father.
However,
i fear that when women get to caught up in establishing their place and dominance in society, men find it less pursuable to learn what he is to uphold. A man can only be beaten down so many times before he breaks. A man will not continue to open a door that continuously slams in his face.
The boundary between is; men understanding that women need to be guided, reassured, and held, and a women understanding that men need to be encouraged, uplifted, and respected.
In this act of mutual understanding, you will no longer FEAR what lies between you and who your meant to love.
(Wade & Kamie Muirhead)
-Carley Muirhead
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