Okay so what? girl advice for the boys?
*Carls takes the stage*
I think way to often women are seen as complicated and/or complex. Which in actuality is truthful in the most beautiful way.
In genesis we read “18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; (P)I will make him a helper fit for[e] him.” 19 (Q)Now out of the ground the Lord God had formed[f] every beast of the field. 20 The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam[g] there was not found a helper fit for him. 21 So the Lord God caused a (S)deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. 22
And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made[h] into a woman and brought her to the man.”
So In this, just as a man longs for that “helper of majesty”. Women long to fill that role. Women long to be a reflection of full potential for the man in which they are meant to love, to fall behind, and encourage. Yet I advise, never belittle the heart of a women for desiring these things. Women have become more and more independent based off a demanding and requested submission from “boys” that can’t hold their end of the deal. Women desire a journey of their own, and just as they encourage yours, they ask you uplift theirs as well.
So my best “girl advice” is climb their walls too, some women are exhausted. Mothers, single mothers, young bachelorettes, teenagers. Each and every women’s heart, at any age. Is in fact, relevant. Including all following hardships in a women’s life, we get tired, angry, numb, indecisive. In which most people label as “complicated”. Just as you, we are trying to find our place in this world as well. We want to feel important, loved, needed and desired. Pick wisely your “helper”
In which may play the role of both, laughter, diligence, submission and independence.
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